It depends on what he is a convicted felon for, and also people change. One thing I would ask is when was he convicted, has he had any trouble since he was convicted? The other thing you have to consider, that most people dont, is that most of the laws in our country are completely stupid. I understand that pedophiles are sick, but do you know that if you knew the story of most registered sex offenders you would laugh and say what the hell. For instance, I had a couple friends in highschool who had been dating for 3 or 4 yrs. Her parents didnt like him, but then again they didnt like anybody. Anyway he turned 17 and she was 15, her parents pressed charges for statutory rape that stuck because they had political pull, not long after he go caught with a beer and a minor in possession. He is now not only a convicted felon but has to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life. Do you think he is dangerous? He is one of the nicest guys I know. But on that note, what I was trying to get at, why do we have to be notified when convicted sex offenders move into our neighborhood? I am not trying to make light of it, I know it is horrible to go through that, but seriously most people get up and go on with their life after that, drugs ruin more lives than rape, but we dont get notified when convicted drug dealers move into the neighborhood. Heck murder takes a life, that person doesnt even have the option to get counseling and get over it, they are dead if they are the victim, but we dont get notified if a convicted murderer moves into our neighborhood.
I am not trying to make light of any of the situations, but you dont know what lead to his conviction, and our laws in this country are pretty screwed up, and the first people to tell you that are good law enforcement officers. My roommates brother is a prison guard, he has an inmate serving a long sentence for attempted murder for a drive by shooting. He was convicted based on "eye witness" accounts that very specifically said he held the piston in his right hand and fired three shots. The problem with this, the man only has a pinky finger on his right hand, he lost the others in a work accident when he was 18. Several experts said, it is physically impposible for him to hold and fir a pistol in theat hand, yet he was still convicted.
What I will tell yo from being there during my friends case and since. His life was ruined by it. He has a college education bt cant get a job, no one will hire him, not because they dont like him, bt they are worried about what the public will think if they know they hired a convicted felon and registered sex offender, if he had killed somebody they would have no problem hiring him. He has also been harassed, people see his address on the sex offender registry that dont even know him and they immediately start harrasing or making threatening calls. And most of them dont even know what happened. It was consensual sex between him and his gf and had been hapening for a while, but he has been accused of brutally raping kids as young as 3 or 4. He stays depressed most of the time, he has ctried to commit sicide several times.
What I am saying is dont judge just because you saw a charge or conviction somewhere, dont judge until you know the story. With the stupidity of our lawas ans the ways our lawmakers pass them without us even knowing it. I heard a story the other day that every American has broken at least 3 laws they didnt even know about before they ever even get to work each day.