mashowcattle said:
thanks for your two opinions, most people down here charge $50.00 a calf but me being the nice person i am like to pay for EVERYTHING and then throw some extra money in there if they dont mind picking up a blower hose rather than just adhesive and a comb.. i feel you get payed for the amount of work you put in. but slowly i am learning i cant do that so i am just starting to just pay them to fitt and leave. i hate to be that way but some people just ruin it for others. and sure mom says oh just do it yourself sure i can but i mean im they type of person that thinks my work isnt as good as others so id just rather pay to get it as close enough to perfect for that calf! .
I can almost always tell how well a person is going to work out, just by talking to them about pay & then judging their reaction/attitude towards it. It's a good litmus test. My observation, over the years, is that the cheaper a person is willing to work, the more loyal they usually will be. Not always, but more often than not. The person who wants "the big bucks" usually is the 1st one to leave/disappear/look for excuses. Not always, but more often than not. I'm not at all saying that a person shouldn't be paid well, because they should be, especially if they work hard & if they do a good job. However, wanting more $$ CAN BE a sign of greed. Greedy people tend to have other baggage that comes along with it. $$ is not the root of all evil, however,
THE LOVE OF $$ is! Keep that in mind.
To prove a point... I asked a SP poster to clip a calf for somebody who lived in their area. Not only did they drive to that person's place to do that, they brought everything necessary (including a grooming chute), & they didn't want to get paid anything for doing it. However, I told the people upfront to pay them for doing the job & I gave them some ball park figures that they should expect to pay. Thankfully, because I spoke up beforehand, they insisted on paying that person. This SP poster went out of their way to bend over backwards to help somebody & didn't want anything for it. As I mentioned above, we had 2 fitters who charged us ONLY expenses and they worked like slaves, from 7-7:30 AM - 4:30-5 PM (and they would've started earlier if the rest of us had gotten up earlier). They were up @ 2:30-3 AM on showday, fitting 10-14 head, including blowing them out, after I washed them. On the other hand, I can tell you multiple stories about people who wanted good $$, but they either didn't show up at all, vanished after 1 day, vanished for long periods during the day, etc, etc, etc.
The best thing you can do is ask around & find somebody who is highly recommended by others. That doesn't always work out either, but somebody with a good track record is more likely to stay on track.
I'd part ways with that person unless they apologized. However, I would not stop being nice just because of some rotten apples. Eventually you will find a good fitter & they will appreciate the generosity.