Well, when this topic was first started I thought long and hard about posting but decided I better stay out of it. But, since it just refuses to die I'm in.
I have been beaten by good cattle and I have been beaten by politics. I have won some I earned and won some I got away with. But I know this, in the long run it does not matter. I am 58 years old and couldn't begin to tell you what my 4-H steer did in 1966 or what a heifer I raised did in 1990. When it happens it seem like a big deal, but trust me it isn't. When I was in 4-H I was bragging to my Dad one day about how great my steer looked and I was gonna kick butt. He taught me to never judge my cattle by looking at my own cattle. He said you don't know what everyone else has, so be careful about getting your hopes up. I think a lot of people think that just because they give big money for a calf they will automatically win, or just because your calf is out of xyz bull he is a shoe in. I've worked my fanny off on hair and all that and still been left in the dust. The best thing I ever taught myself was this.....after the show I lie in bed at night and ask myself if I did the best job I could of getting my calf ready. If the answer is yes, roll over and go to sleep and don't get mad at the people that beat you. All you have to know is if YOU DID THE BEST YOU COULD DO.
It is easy to get mad at the big players and blame everything that has ever happened to you on them. But, have you ever spoken to them? Have you gotten to know them? You do not have to buy a big priced heifer to talk to them. Just walk up and say my name is.... Find out their phone number and call them. I bet they won't hang up on you. It is easy to throw stones at people you do not know.
The only time I have ever done business with John Sullivan is when he bought some semen from me. But, I did one day walk up to him and introduce my self. I saw him at Cates sale this year and congratulated him on his heifers being grand and reserve at Junior Nationals. Know what he said? He wasn't smug, high headed or a jerk. He thanked me for the compliment and said: "I was thinking before the final drive that it was too bad you weren't there because I thought your heifer might win it." He did not have to say that to me. He could have said thanks and walked away. Maybe if you GET TO KNOW PEOPLE you will understand them.
When I was a teen we were at Bob Evans farm at a Charolais get together. My Dad told me to walk up and in troduse myself to Bob Evans. Well I of course was bashful and did not want to charge up to THE Bob Evans. My Dad flat out said we were not going home until I did introduce myself. I found out he did not bite and was a very nice man. He spoke to me every time I saw him after that. I saw him in the 1990's at the Fairfield County Fair (maybe 25 years after I introduced myself) and he still remembered my name. So, get off your butt, introduce yourself to these people you do not know but are jealous of and maybe they can teach you something about the cattle business.
Jealousy, taking pot shots and hate for someone you do not know is for the belly crawlers of the world. It is especially easy to do hiding on a board.
I have always said it is not how many cattle you own it is which ones. Maybe someone just needs to teach you how to make the most of what you have. I bought a cow a few years ago and gave $8400 for her. She was raising $1000 to $1250 calves every year but I figured at that rate she would have to live to be 50 to make me any money. When she was 10 I put an embryo in her.....she had a heifer calf that paid for her in full and went on to be a division winner at junior nationals. I have a cow I gave $4000 for and she has had 3 hard doing bull calves out of 3 different bulls. I did not blame it on the guys that raised the bulls...it is the cow. I have not called the man I bought the cow from to bitch because it is MY business to figure out how to make her make money. She now has an embryo in her. So, clean your own business up before you rant on someone else. If you can't compete maybe, just maybe, it is YOUR fault.
If you want to see me get beat and get my 'come upins' come to Louisville and see the bull I refuse to get fat.
Well, that should be enough said to piss a bunch of you off. That is not my intention but I know how it goes.
Have a nice day everyone and I honestly wish you all great success.
Malinda