I can agree with all 3... ideally i would like every calf to have all these traits, but there's a place for every budget, and growing up in the showring is one of the finest teachers of responsibility, hard work, good sportsmanship, and companionship.
In my barn, we had several champions, even some grand champions, so logically, we did get caught up in the excitement of winning.
However, i know that everybody has a different amount to put into it and calves can be bought for a great price. So, number 2 fits really well also.
Lastly, it is important for a young showman to have a calf that is a great companion with a good personality that is fun to show.
All are valid points, and truthfully everyone has their own opinion, the beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so be proud of what u have and know that no matter what anyone says, u will always know that u have a good calf no matter what which viewpoint u appreciate the most.