"I want all our animals to be so tame that a child running through the barn that trips and falls at our calves feet
will not spook him in the least. I want this because people let there little kids run all over the place at these shows and it is really no place for unsupervised
children to be running wild."
While this may sound great in theory, these are still animals and there is no guarantee how an animal will react to any given situation.
Some of you don't think you have 3-4 thousand in a steer by the time it is finished, you need to start putting some figures down on paper. If you spend a thousand on the calf, our feed is 390 per ton, you then have entry fees, supplies, water, electricity and maybe you don't think your time is valuable, but mine is worth something. I would say there aren't very many projects that are worth less than that.
Try a nose ring and continue to work with him, I don't know very many folks that just give up and send them packing, we have not ever had one that you couldn't get broke down with enough time and work. Good luck and let us know how it turns out.