I might as well jump in...
Why do I PM more than I post (and that is not saying much)....because I am sick and tired of being the witch that everyone likes to gang up on because I don't share their opinion. I have been personally attacked, and have had bodily harm threatened (and the just what is the difference between "I am going to hunt you down and kick you face in" compared to "I wish I could kick your face in"???). And then to be told to "In the future, maybe it be best to ignore such threats".....what a coward. If someone threatens me, my family, or my friends, they better be loaded for not only a bear, but a MAD bear. More than likely I am NOT going to ignore it. And to think some, moderatators even, finds this kind of threat to be acceptable. So, I am left shaking my head.....I can only imagine if I stooped to their level what kind of hell there would be to pay....
It seems to me that opinions are tolerated as long as they are similiar to what the person wanted to hear. I am not a cheerleader. Never was in high school either. So when someone ask my opinion, I am assuming they are wanted ALL opinions, from the good to the bad, not just the "peachy" ones.
justintime: I don't see anyone being more tolerant on this board because of "sharing information"...in fact, after being threatened for sharing my opinion, I don't feel very welcome at all. And after I questioned the "all mighty" I was really bashed and threatened...funny, even after getting a response (of which I hadn't gotten until then from this person) I still don't have results. But when info is about to surface, peace, love and happiness comes to the surface.....funny how that works. (And yes, I lost most of you on that one, but its ok.) It seems this board has lost a few members too...but who is counting....
Do I care if someone spews their guts out on this board...no, I don't read them, but if I was that 12 year old that the mother ripped on on SP, it would be a VERY LONG time before I trusted "dear ol' Mom" again. That is what communication is about between family members, not strangers on a board in which her friends can read. Sad is what I call that.
I also have concerns about "privacy"....seems to me, some that have access to info share it rather frequently as to who is who and where they are. And I don't think that is right. Seems that "information" is being shared to others when it was told in friendship and confidence...I guess that just shows what kind of person one is dealing with.
On the TH/PHA issue (geesh, can I not post at least ONCE without bring that damn thing up??) - I find it odd people can suggest bulls without revealing their status, and then you get the "what are the chance of...?" , "I had a deformed calf...", "Does anyone know about TH/PHA...." "I've been breeding clubby cattle for years and have never...." I still believe there are people that have no idea what TH/PHA is, and yep, I feel it is my responsibility to inform them. If you don't want to read it, then don't. Just like I ignore the post I don't like "Corgies", "How do you cure ringworm (for the millionth time), "what is the best feed? (for the thousandth time)" etc...
And as for the cussing, I guess it is acceptable for some to do it, but not others....although I have found this rule to be nice (I'm not one for cussing, but do let one slip every now and then), I wish it were enforced equally, and not "depends on who it is and what their intent is."
DL has been an invaluable source of information that is not baised one way or another. You never have to worry about where she stands, or that she might "change her mind according to popular opinion or what she has in her pasture". Like her or hate her, she has to have your respect. Which is something is most people are lacking now-a-days). She is one of the VERY FEW that has my TOTAL RESPECT. And believe it or not, I don't always agree with her (amazing we are still friends huh DL!!!). She is the ultimate professional that takes her job of educating the people that come to her very seriously.
I have met a few others on this board, that even though we got off to a rough start, I turn to them for help, advice and even talk sheep!!! And some I have met and decided they were not who I thought they were and so off they go. No big loss on either end I am sure.
So in summary, talk about what you want. But remember the good ol' days at SS....it seems to come and go.....and this too shall pass.