justintime
Well-known member
I think every show, and every community has it's share of complainers. I call them CAVE people, in which CAVE stands for " citizens against virtually everything". If they can't find anything to complain about they make something up. Most of these people are just one level above white trailer trash usually, but they try to put on a much more important air, than they actually are. I think these types of people are partially to blame for some good people saying" I know what they are doing is wrong, but I will just keep quiet , simply because I do not want to be thought of like the people who complain about everything". I think that this is why the cheaters get away with so much in many cases.
This being said, I do believe very strongly, that there comes a time when you must stand up for what you believe. When this time comes, you first have to make sure you have your facts straight. If you do not think you can make a complaint by yourself, talk to an well respected person at your show, who is experienced and trusted. Tell them what you know and ask them what you should do. I think this will give you that second opinion that will help assure you that you are doing the right thing. Just shrinking into the corner and saying that you will just keep quiet because everyone is doing it, sure sends a negative message to your kids and to any others near you. There comes a time when you have to take a stand. It isn't easy, and you as Americans, should understand that, as your nation, has taken many stands around the world in the name of doing right. At some point, evil, as well as sick perverted cheaters, liers, and low life lazy wimps and bullies, have to be stood up to. The important thing is to get your facts straight, be as positive as you can be about them, have support of some respected people around you, and any proof of what has been done. It has to be handled properly, or you stand the risk of being seen as a CAVE person, but it is important that you, and me... and everyone else, who believes that there is no place in this business for this crap, take a stand for what we believe in.
To those who commented in this thread, that you should just keep quiet, I place you in the same category as the cheaters themselves. Better suck it up and grow some gonads, or you won't get too far in this life.
This being said, I do believe very strongly, that there comes a time when you must stand up for what you believe. When this time comes, you first have to make sure you have your facts straight. If you do not think you can make a complaint by yourself, talk to an well respected person at your show, who is experienced and trusted. Tell them what you know and ask them what you should do. I think this will give you that second opinion that will help assure you that you are doing the right thing. Just shrinking into the corner and saying that you will just keep quiet because everyone is doing it, sure sends a negative message to your kids and to any others near you. There comes a time when you have to take a stand. It isn't easy, and you as Americans, should understand that, as your nation, has taken many stands around the world in the name of doing right. At some point, evil, as well as sick perverted cheaters, liers, and low life lazy wimps and bullies, have to be stood up to. The important thing is to get your facts straight, be as positive as you can be about them, have support of some respected people around you, and any proof of what has been done. It has to be handled properly, or you stand the risk of being seen as a CAVE person, but it is important that you, and me... and everyone else, who believes that there is no place in this business for this crap, take a stand for what we believe in.
To those who commented in this thread, that you should just keep quiet, I place you in the same category as the cheaters themselves. Better suck it up and grow some gonads, or you won't get too far in this life.