justintime
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I think I should apologize for my last rant last night. I guess I was really tired of aj's constant attempts to degrade my reputation, which is the most valuable possession I own. He continually had done this for months by accusing me of having some part of a bull I raised selling for $20,000.The only thing I had to do with this happening, was when one breeder commented to me that it was a shame that a bull like this could be in use here in Canada, and would probably sell to the US. I told him if he was serious about this, he should get some partners and try to buy him. It was less than an hour before the sale, when I heard that he had indeed put a group together. I had originally retained a 1/3 semen interest in him, but when I heard that this group was forming, I told them that I was willing to take my 1/3 semen interest off the table, and just take an equal share to the rest of the group, so that all partners would be equal. The rest happened in the auction. I was as surprised as anybody. I am only reciting this once again, for the upteenth time, to try to set the record straight. I really have no idea why a bull that will never affect aj in any way bothers him so much. The only thing I can think of, is that he thinks I did something very dishonest to make this happen. I just don't get why this bothers him so much. $20,000 is not a big deal anymore, and is really a small deal when 8 people( including myself) toss $2500 each into a deal to get to use a bull. Big hairy deal. There are literally hundreds of animals in all breeds that sell for this or more every year. Part of the reason, I mentioned some things from the 1980s last night was to try to point out that this is nothing new.
I don't know why, but aj's crap over the past few months, really got to me last night. The part that bothers me the most is simply that he constantly attempts to degrade my reputation and if this was not a public forum, it would not bother me as much. I keep thinking that there are probably some people who believe what he is saying. Guess what is bothering me the most this morning, is that I allowed aj to pull me down to his level where negativity rules. I guess I was upset because he continually ridicules my herd and myself, yet he really never does anything to show us how what he does is better. My herd is far from perfect, and I have never said it was, but I do try to work with what I have and I am always looking for ways to seek improvement.
When I was young, my parents told me that if I was not completely honest in my dealings in order to compete in the cattle business, they wanted me to chose another career path. This was hammered into me on a regular basis.This is one thing that I have carried with me through my life. Because of this, I have always tried my best, and went the extra mile to offer customer service and support after a sale. My birth dates and birth weights are accurate, and I think that a part of any of the little successes I have achieved, are due to the fact that people that deal with me, know they can believe me and trust what I tell them is accurate. I think that is why some people have come back over and over. aj mentioned in a previous post that it is about the cattle, not about the personalities involved, and I guess I think he is dead wrong in that regard. Many times people will drive past several breeders to go to another place because of the owners personality. I know this happens as I have done it myself. I think I am like lots of other people in that I like to buy cattle from people I like. Reputation and integrity will trump ( sorry for using a swear word) the animals in most every case. I guess I just value mine too much to have someone question it for months on end. I am going to pull my last post in this thread, and I truly hope this will stop this insanity. There are so many things in this business that we could ( and should ) be debating and we do not need to agree. Hopefully though, we can agree to disagree and maybe in the process get an little insight into another point of view. Personal attacks should never be a part of this forum.... Mine included, but I will only do this when I see my integrity being questioned by someone who does not know how I operate and what I do.
I think I have had more than my share of failures in this business, and I have seen some hard times as well. If you think my posts are long now, don't get me going on what I have done wrong. aj says that I think it is all about me. Well, my reputation is all about me, and I am sorry but I will defend it until I draw my last breath.
I guess I just don't understand what enjoyment people like aj get from their constant belittling of others. He does it to many others besides me, but for some reason he really gets his jolly's from personal attacks on me, and I cannot ever remember what I said or did to have this start. I actually went back after his attacks started and read many pages of posts to see if I had said anything to make him start these attacks. I can't seem to find anything but maybe I am reading something differently than he did. I have never questioned what he does in his operation, as I have said time and time again, what he does is his right and no one else's business. Like me, he should have the right to live and die by his own decisions.
I don't know why, but aj's crap over the past few months, really got to me last night. The part that bothers me the most is simply that he constantly attempts to degrade my reputation and if this was not a public forum, it would not bother me as much. I keep thinking that there are probably some people who believe what he is saying. Guess what is bothering me the most this morning, is that I allowed aj to pull me down to his level where negativity rules. I guess I was upset because he continually ridicules my herd and myself, yet he really never does anything to show us how what he does is better. My herd is far from perfect, and I have never said it was, but I do try to work with what I have and I am always looking for ways to seek improvement.
When I was young, my parents told me that if I was not completely honest in my dealings in order to compete in the cattle business, they wanted me to chose another career path. This was hammered into me on a regular basis.This is one thing that I have carried with me through my life. Because of this, I have always tried my best, and went the extra mile to offer customer service and support after a sale. My birth dates and birth weights are accurate, and I think that a part of any of the little successes I have achieved, are due to the fact that people that deal with me, know they can believe me and trust what I tell them is accurate. I think that is why some people have come back over and over. aj mentioned in a previous post that it is about the cattle, not about the personalities involved, and I guess I think he is dead wrong in that regard. Many times people will drive past several breeders to go to another place because of the owners personality. I know this happens as I have done it myself. I think I am like lots of other people in that I like to buy cattle from people I like. Reputation and integrity will trump ( sorry for using a swear word) the animals in most every case. I guess I just value mine too much to have someone question it for months on end. I am going to pull my last post in this thread, and I truly hope this will stop this insanity. There are so many things in this business that we could ( and should ) be debating and we do not need to agree. Hopefully though, we can agree to disagree and maybe in the process get an little insight into another point of view. Personal attacks should never be a part of this forum.... Mine included, but I will only do this when I see my integrity being questioned by someone who does not know how I operate and what I do.
I think I have had more than my share of failures in this business, and I have seen some hard times as well. If you think my posts are long now, don't get me going on what I have done wrong. aj says that I think it is all about me. Well, my reputation is all about me, and I am sorry but I will defend it until I draw my last breath.
I guess I just don't understand what enjoyment people like aj get from their constant belittling of others. He does it to many others besides me, but for some reason he really gets his jolly's from personal attacks on me, and I cannot ever remember what I said or did to have this start. I actually went back after his attacks started and read many pages of posts to see if I had said anything to make him start these attacks. I can't seem to find anything but maybe I am reading something differently than he did. I have never questioned what he does in his operation, as I have said time and time again, what he does is his right and no one else's business. Like me, he should have the right to live and die by his own decisions.